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I'm 28 years old living with my perfect match in central New Jersey. I'm a musician at heart. I play the sax, viola & piano. Finally starting to teach myself guitar. Music is a hobby right now, and telecom is the industry I'm working in to pay the bills. I hope to get back into music performance again sometime in the near future. ~~Gettin'~~ hitched October 3, 2008.

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Thursday, August 14, 2008

I'm stressing. Freaking out. Having anxiety attacks. Can't eat. Feel sick.

I know it will get better.

There is soooo much riding on this wedding. So much money, so much worry about how good or bad things will be. Who will show up, who won't. Who will RSVP NO and show up. Who will RSVP Yes and back out... leaving us to foot the lovely bill.

The money -- honestly -- isn't really my biggest concern. It's all the people. Making sure, as much as I can, that no one feels slighted. That everyone has a good time. I worry about the people par-taking in my wedding. How stressful it must be for them. I don't want them to stress. Not over me. Not over my wedding.

I think -- I need -- one of these.

I have been very slow to read and respond to other bloggers out there. I'm sorry!!!

My only excuse is this wedding and work. It's freaking my mind out and I can no longer multi-task. I need there to be more hours in a day. And more Yoda's on my shoulder. (and i need to figure out why i'm suddenly obsessed with Yoda's anyway)

posted by Typette @ 9:45 PM

2 Comments:

At August 15, 2008 9:04 AM, justme said…

i know....it's really hard. But i swear when it is over, you will wonder why you stressed so much about it. just keep that in mind and repeat it daily, "when this is over, it just won't matter" lol.

i know it seems like it is so important right now, but in the scheme of things, it's not. your wedding will be beautiful and if you spend your time worrying about everyone else, you will "miss" it.
At August 20, 2008 1:51 PM, Sue said…

I remember being there. Wedding prep is very stressful. There is so much to worry about. I had no say no and show up. I did have one yes be a no-show. I haven't spoken to her since. ;)

I will say this, and it may or may not help. Try NOT to worry about pleasing everyone else. You can't make everyone happy and you shouldn't. Meaning - it's YOUR day, well, ok yours and Mike's. The most important thing is that you're both happy and have a blast.

I know nothing will make you not stress before the wedding. But...as long as the day of, you wipe all of the stress out of your head and have FUN!!!